I’ve heard plenty of complaints about how their friends have betrayed / back stabbed / badmouthed / bad + etc them in numerous ways. Their cases have left me feeling blessed. But, does that mean my life is without such people whom we terms as ‘assholes’?
Honestly, they are everywhere. I remember meeting a new one almost once every month (like menses). During my primary school days, secondary school days, poly days, uni days, army days, working life, i too have my fair share of undesirable encounters with assholes. But i believe i had probably dealt with it quite differently from some of you, which probably helps make my life a little less miserable despite being infuriated by assholes.
The SOLUTION: STAY AWAY FROM ASSHOLES.
Yes, that’s right. Simply stay away from them. i’m sure you can smell one when you are near one. They are called asshole for a reason. Keep them away from your life. Have the mentality that you rather be alone than be with assholes.
If someone badmouth someone else in front of you, do not participate and stay away from such people.
If you know someone badmouth you behind your back, do not engage and stay away from such people.
If you know someone back stabbed someone else, do not get involved and stay away from such people.
If you know someone back stabbed you, do not retaliate and stay away from such people.
If you know someone spreading rumours about someone else, do not entertain and stay away from such people.
If you know someone spreading rumours about you, stay low and stay away from such people.
I can go on and on but i think you get the point.
Life is short. Time is precious. You do not wish to waste your time with such activities. These are activities that can drain you unnecessarily, keeping you away from your goals and poison your success journey.
I work really hard keeping such assholes AWAY and OUT from my life. I do not bitch about them not because they do not exists. They are always there. You just need to keep you distance.
Thus, the key to happiness is to just stay away from assholes. If not, you are at great risk of suffering personal damage and turning into an asshole yourself.
To pen off, stay the hell away from asshole, you be in better position for success and happiness.
Cheers
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